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One of the many benefits of testing sleep products is that I get to choose which mattresses I review.

So why do I find every tailor-made mattress for side sleepers too hard?

Helix Midnight Luxe Mattress

The Helix Midnight Luxe is a hit among the side sleepers on our team, but it just wasn’t plush enough for me.

But you know what?

I even got to sleep on it for a week.

But again, I ended up disappointed by its lack of plushness.

A tester feel the edge support of the Midnight Luxe

The Helix Midnight Luxe is a hit among the side sleepers on our team, but it just wasn’t plush enough for me.

I came up with several theories.

But sometimes, for me, they feel like sleeping on the floor.

The heavier you are, the firmer your mattress needs to be to provide enough support for your weight.

Testers sleeping on the Saatva Classic mattress

Even the No. 1-rated Saatva Classic wasn’t quite what I was looking for in a side sleeper mattress.

Meanwhile, lightweight side sleepers such as myself who are less than 130lbs need plusher beds.

Most side-sleeper mattresses are designed for average-weight side sleepers, so they’re always too firm for me.

Without the springs to add firmness, maybe a body-hugging memory foam mattress is ideal for me.

The Saatva Classic mattress photographed from up high to show the lumbar support section

That said, many brands gauge the firmness of their mattresses based on what testers and customers say.

Naturally, average-weight and plus-sized sleepers may rate these beds softer than lightweight sleepers.

This rating method may explain why that mattress was too firm for me.

A hand feels the temperature regulation of the Nolah Natural 11

If I were to test the Saatva Classic again, I would definitely pick the Plush option.

I credit the quilted pillow top on the Plank’s less-firm side for that.

A pressure relief weight test is conducted on the Saatva Classic.

We feel the fiberglass-free Saatva Classic mattress

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A woman sleeps on her side on the Nolah Natural 11

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The Nolah Natural 11 Mattress in a well-lit, neutral bedroom

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